In our current society, boys face certain challenges, for example, many boys encounter the admonition to do something “like a man”. The context usually has something to do with hiding his feelings and not expressing himself. One of the things a lot of our boys are told is that the arts are “for girls” and are not a valid pursuit for a boy. I was lucky that my first encounter with the phrase “like a man” was my brother when he gave me my first trumpet lesson, I tired of holding up the instrument and he encouraged me to “hold that instrument up like a man”. Most likely, unknowingly, he had planted the seed in my mind that the path I was embarking on was not just for girls, but for anyone. It was part of what gave me the confidence to make music my life’s work. It is one of my obligations in life to pass this on to other young boys and teach them to do music “like a man”.